27. At my funeral, it is unlikely that my family would present me crossdressed against my living wishes.
Wow. The notion of such disrespect, such refusal by close, supposedly "loved ones" to essentially really see someone, was really impactful. And the point of privilege is driven home... i will never have to worry about this.
Patriarchal notions of gender as static are really archaic. And harmful. To everyone.
Sending love and strength to my trans fam, stay up y'all.
Peep the rest of the list here.